Why I am unsocial while travelling
Summertime is vacation time. And I love to share and to see what people are doing when they are at new places. I normally share as much as possible for my blog when I have a chance. But this time I realized didn't upload anything from what I do or saw or did in the last couple days. No screenshot of the book I am reading, the fancy Marple syrup latte I tried for the first time, the skyline of the city from far away while sitting at the lake and seeing the sun slowly going down. Now snaps of what I ate or my face.
I didn't check my phone. I didn't write into my WhatsApp groups to update everybody of what I am doing. Why not? Am I antisocial and forgetting everybody?
Not really, I just take the new environment all in. Because I couldn't be bothered to buy a SIM card for this country I only have internet on my phone when I get to a wifi spot. This leads to many moments of "where the fuck am I? Lost in the city again! " asking strangers for directions and moments without the comfortable distractions at the reach of your phone. Digital detox. Not being available feels so good. Not having the obligation to share my day.
And be refreshed when getting to the business. Because all the ideas are flowing now. Creativity needs space, silence and time to grow and to develop.
Why Creativity needs Isolation
Some people tend to get really productive when they are on a plane. Because with no internet that can distract us, we start to use our creativity again. When was the last time you felt bored, alone, awkward in a social situation or even just a tiny little bit uncomfortable and you did not reach out for your phone for some comfort?
When Social Awkwardness takes over
We all know it. We are sitting in a room full of people, the public transport or even at a friends house. And everybody has their phone in the hand. Starring at the screen. Isolating through your headphones. No doubt, I love to get my morning commute going with some privacy of my own music. And I don't want to skip that at all. But I bet you have been in a surrounding where you grabbed your phone maybe because you didn't know what to say anymore, or you felt that everybody else was doing something super important on their phone. Or you wanted to connect to somebody but didn't know how so that's when you took your phone and showed them a funny video you just gave a like a minute before. I think it's not that bad to endure some social awkward occasions once in a while. And to deal with people the old school way. Either you just blankly ignore the fact/person that is caused the awkwardness or you can try to solve it with some offline chatting. I am out ✌🏾